[written 05.20.09]

i be a bored fuck at work. so i’m on fb on my phone and i’m browsing thru status updates and one of em slapped me in the face…

“why do girls hang out with girls they dont like?”

omg. and it was on a guy’s profile. LOL.  there are soooo many answers to this question.

she’s cool. just not my cup of tea. just cuz we dont like a specific thing about a girl, doesnt mean we dont like her as a whole. for example… this girl i know loves to borrow everything under the sun, and it annoys the bejeezus outta me, but that doesnt stop me from choppin it up with her when i see her. and so long as she doesnt ask to borrow another pair of my shoes, we good!

benefit of the doubt.  girls love to chismiss but not necessarily pass judgement.  i hear shit bout girls i dont even know but i always want to come to my own conclusion about their character.  so even if i hear that she’s a backstabbing two-faced whore, i’ll probably give her the benefit of the doubt and attempt to get the know the girl.  cuz what if she’s nothing like that?   then i missed out on knowing an amazing person.   and just to clarify, just cuz my friend dont like her, doesnt automatically mean that i dont like her by association.  

sometimes, we just can’t get away.  so.. ok.   we dont like the bitch.  we’ve already established that we dont click.  but, shes really good friends with one of our good friends and she’s bound to be at the same events.   and since i aint the type of girl to start shit when its not appropriate, i bite my tongue and try our best to be cordial..  i say hi, i smile politely.  but does this mean i wanna be bff’s?  NO. 

who said i didnt like her?  guys are always thinkin that we automatically dont like anyone with a vagina.   and yeah we may give her the side eye upon meeting her but thats only cuz we a hater but im pretty sure that unless i come out and SAY that i dont like somebody, i dont automatically NOT like them.   c’mon guys.  give me a break. 

and i could go on and on but i’ve already lost my train of thought and i’m gonna let u guys give me more answers. i know ur dying to share.  hahaha…