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Posted by raaachem on January 22nd, 2010
shit. whenever i heard my mom counting, i knew i was in trouble. in fact, i was gonna get my ass beat and there was nothing i could do about it.
jess put me on to this article in hearty mag:
Debra Danielsen, mother of Farrah Abraham who stars in MTV’s reality series Teen Mom, was arrested yesterday for domestic assault. According to the Omaha World Herald, Danielsen was standing three feet from Farrah holding two knives and screaming when the police entered their Iowa home. Danielsen refused to comply with police orders to drop the knives and the officers drew their guns on her. Reports state that Farrah and her mother had been fighting over childcare issues and other “problems”.
where do i even begin? long gone are the days of my youth, where anyone older than you could discipline you by kicking your butt (strangers, and family members included).
all my aunties, uncles and older cousins had every right to discipline me when i’d get out of line, and please believe they did. i even remember the principal at my elementary school would spank kids everytime they would get an infraction.
hitting children was just the way it went. it was discipline and it was soooo necessary. how the fuck else were we supposed to know how to act right, right?
then came the day when some smart-ass-all-kinds-of-wrong-kinda kid figured out that spanking could be misinterpreted as child abuse. maybe, if he told people he was gettin’ abused by his parentals, he could then do whatever the fuck he wanted without gettin’ belt marks on his ass. to say this was the start of a slippery slope that has ended with kids killing kids, kids getting pregnant, and kids simply running amuck is an understatement.
as a parent myself, it kills me to spank my son’s hand or his butt when he’s doin’ things that he’s not supposed to do. and altho i believe Farrah’s mom did a LIL TOO much, i truly believe Farrah needed SOME kind of discipline. do you see the way she talks to her mom? no kinda respect whatsoever.
as a child, i understand all too well… but i also understand that the prospect of getting hit with a belt, a slipper, or a hanger scared me shitless and kept me outta trouble. it made me come home at curfew, do the dishes and my homework, and never ever ever talk back to my parents. ever.
regarldess of your position on child spanking, it works. timeouts, and grounding and alla that shit works too. but i put $100 that Farrah’s parents never spanked her as a kid…. and they wonder why she’s the way she is. psh.
January 22nd, 2010 at 4:43 pm
oh CHILD! AMMMMMEN! i came out juuust fine without any fucking problems because my parents, my aunts, my uncles, my grandparents gave me the whoopin! and i THANK them
January 22nd, 2010 at 5:07 pm
yepp, i agree!
and yea it sucks to spank your lil baby, but forsure they wont do it again!
I remember i used to know someone whos parents NEVER hit them, but instead made them hold out cans of food for like an hour. thats TORTURE! id rather just get spanked. at least i wont be sore the next day, shoot..
January 22nd, 2010 at 7:37 pm
honestly i would not have had it any other way. now you see kids mouthing off like crazy to their parents and calling them names. back then my dad would give me a look that would have me trembling. eff that. sometimes a spankin is the way you show your kids who the authoritative figure is!
January 22nd, 2010 at 9:06 pm
You people are hilarious. Spanking never worked on me. Spanking is not illegal in Texas unless you bruise the child. But I don’t believe in it, and I don’t necessarily agree with people who do spank. Children learn not to get spanked, not not to do what they’re not supposed to do. They have to actually understand logic and reason of what they’re doing wrong, and hitting them, which spanking is, doesn’t show them that.
Also, what does this have to do with Hellz Bellz? I don’t think this post really belongs on this blog.
January 22nd, 2010 at 9:49 pm
i’m sorry. i’m givin my kid an ass whoopin when necessary. cuz shit, it came to the point where all my mom had to do was give me THE LOOK. and i know yall know THE LOOK. and i shut my ass up right then and there without her even layin a finger on me. WHY? cuz i knew THE LOOK would lead to THE ASS WHOOPIN of a lifetime. FECK THAT.
January 23rd, 2010 at 12:27 am
Her mom should of beat her ass. I’ve watched that show with my mom and even my mom agrees, that girl needs an ass whooping. Kids need discipline starting at a young age. Need to learn how to respect too.
January 23rd, 2010 at 1:53 am
maggie ^
theres A LOT of posts on HELLZ that have NOTHING to do with HELLZ and yet, you read them everyday and never complain.
just because the topic of the post takes a more serious turn, doesnt mean it doesnt belong here.
&& to everyone else, ‘THAT LOOK’ always got me! if my daddy gave me a fuhked up a look i knew i better shut my mouth up and just walk away lmao
still works to this day lol
January 23rd, 2010 at 1:57 am
better yet, its not even serious.
just real talk.
January 23rd, 2010 at 12:29 pm
You can defend spanking, but the fact is it’s still hitting.
January 23rd, 2010 at 12:42 pm
Also, the disgusting views of this blog and its readers that sometimes a child needs an “ass whooping” really turns me off. I understand people who believe in spanking, because some of my friends use it as punishment. But to say things like ass whooping or even admit that hitting is a great way to discipline a child (as at least one person here said) is vile.
Children learn nothing from corporal punishment except to avoid punishment, not why the act is wrong. Hellz is off my subscription list.
January 23rd, 2010 at 3:11 pm
I’m not sure if “disgusting” is the correct word, but as mentioned in the post itself, spanking and the occasional ass whoopin’ worked for ME. it’s my past, my upbringing, and my culture. if you call that “disgusting” then so be it.. to each her own. you are entitled to your opinion and i respect that… but this is my opinion, and i own it with all that i am. my intention was not to offend, but rather to get the wheels in ur head turnin’.. which i have accomplished. so thanks for sharing your opinions everyone! =)
January 23rd, 2010 at 3:30 pm
exactly rachel ^ i was raised the same way, and when my grandma got pissed, i ran cuz she was gonna get me with the chancla (her sandal lol)
i didn’t mean to start an argument with you maggie ^^ and i agree, spanking is a form of hitting, but theres a difference between spanking and BEATING. its on a whole other level. a slap on a kids butt wont do him wrong. and yea it is a way of discipline, if not, what would be the point of doing it? just to get the thrill out of hitting your child? No, you do it so youre child can understand that he better not do it again, and yes, that may mean that your child avoids the punishment, rather than really understand what they did wrong. but they know what they did got em spanked, which means they mustve done something wrong, which means they wont do it again. thats it. there kids, you’re the parent. you dont have to explain every last thing to them. the same way when you were a teenager and you asked to go out and your parents said no “because i said so”, that was it. you dont have to explain everything to them. the fact is you did something wrong, you get spanked put on time out, and move on. dont do it again. end of discussion.
i mean, i respect your opinion all the same, and if you think spanking is wrong, thats fine. but going to the extreme of taking hellz of your blog roll? these are everyones opinions. everytime someone disagrees with your view on something, your just gonna delete them and say their opinions are wrong..? just a bit to much, i think.
January 23rd, 2010 at 7:58 pm
Shit. I remember every single whoppin I got from my mama when I was a kid. Spankings are necessary! Growing up, it taught me from right and wrong. I knew if somethin was gonna lead me to an ass whoppin, I wouldn’t dare do it. My mama would scare the shit outta me as soon as I hear the clinging of a belt and a count of 1, 2 3… I’d run, and hide in cabinets or corners just so she can give up on finding me lmao. The younger generations now have it so easy and they’re so spoiled. But they get into more shit and have less respect because they have no disapline in their life. When I have kids and they do wrong, I definately won’t be hesistant to spank em on the butt for doing wrong. It works! Hell, if my dog pisses on the carpet instead of his peewee pad, all I gotta do is raise my hand high.. His ears will pin back and he goes straight to his doggy palace haha.
January 26th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
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January 27th, 2010 at 3:08 am
I grew up exactly the same way and im glad.
What i don’t understand is, If ’spanking’ is wrong, then why the fuck do some people keep their kids on leashes. I feel its totally in the same boat? No?
LOL. do what you do raaachem. Speak that truth.
January 28th, 2010 at 12:52 pm
These comment are hilar!
And I definitely recall every damn ass whoopin’ I got.
It came to a point where it didn’t affect me, and so they stopped.