Comments on: and u say he’s just a friend. http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140 . Fri, 10 Sep 2010 08:59:52 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 By: You people are confused http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-5638 You people are confused Sat, 20 Feb 2010 18:48:13 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-5638 relationships are more than about sex. Your friend ship with your partner is very important. Can you see why guy friends are a precious boundary. To believe sex define attract and relationships is an immature look at what attraction between a man and woman is. relationships are more than about sex. Your friend ship with your partner is very important. Can you see why guy friends are a precious boundary. To believe sex define attract and relationships is an immature look at what attraction between a man and woman is.

]]> By: You people are confused http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-5637 You people are confused Sat, 20 Feb 2010 18:45:33 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-5637 Really look at the common sense of it all. Of coure if a member of the opposite sex is making you feel good, maybe you should think about that one. And yea they will playkate you. Paranoid guy should ditch the confused girlfriend until she matures abit. Really look at the common sense of it all. Of coure if a member of the opposite sex is making you feel good, maybe you should think about that one. And yea they will playkate you. Paranoid guy should ditch the confused girlfriend until she matures abit.

]]> By: You people are confused http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-5636 You people are confused Sat, 20 Feb 2010 18:42:36 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-5636 I think it is time that the platonic friendship debate concludes. Platonic relations can indeed occur between man and wife or a hetero man and a hetero woman, platonic love between a man and woman is as romantic as physical love (or lust as this can be called by some). Both are romantic loves or attractions. Between men and women it is a state of flirtation. Flirtation is not always sexual. Maybe to the immature mind it is. One must understand the balance that makes a relationship work. Ignorance will only cloud one's judgment and views. Platonic love does exist but it is widely misunderstood. Like sex, one can have multiple partners if one so chooses. Romance is a delicate balance of physical love and platonic love. Love based on merely sex is clearly not a mature love. The balance may vary but the romance is still there. Platonic love between a man and a woman vastly differs from platonic love between a parent and a child or platonic love between a human and it's pet(s). Boundaries between a man and a woman are very delicate. Humanity is imperfect. We are all responsible for our own actions, decisions and beliefs and values and therefore our own consequences as well. We all want different things. It is important to clarify what platonic love is between man and woman(hetero) and the importance of clarification. A happy and successful relationship can be defined by its balance of platonic and physical love. After all it may prove to be difficult to find happiness and a strong connection with your partner if that friendship is not there. I will not touch on boundaries. Life is boundless if one so chooses it to be. I will not touch on the difference between right and wrong either. People make mistakes, some learn from them, some don’t and some don’t want to. People will do as they please. As I have said above people want different things and value different things. My purpose here is to clarify what platonic love truly is. It is a beautiful thing when completely understood. People will define boundaries according to their values and personal moral. Rather than debate one must educate them selves and be honest with them selves. A closed mind is not a mind open to truth and wisdom. Truth and wisdom will bring one to true enlightenment and a clear peace of mind. Sometimes in life one has to explore to find answers. One must under stand that truth may be spoken and maybe unspoken, seen or unseen. Mistakes do happen. Some risks are worth taking and some are not worth taking. Propaganda and mis-information closes the minds of many. How can one evolve as a person with a closed mind and the acceptance of reality? How can one be true with a partner if they are not truthful with self? I think it is time that the platonic friendship debate concludes. Platonic relations can indeed occur between man and wife or a hetero man and a hetero woman, platonic love between a man and woman is as romantic as physical love (or lust as this can be called by some). Both are romantic loves or attractions. Between men and women it is a state of flirtation. Flirtation is not always sexual. Maybe to the immature mind it is. One must understand the balance that makes a relationship work. Ignorance will only cloud one’s judgment and views. Platonic love does exist but it is widely misunderstood. Like sex, one can have multiple partners if one so chooses. Romance is a delicate balance of physical love and platonic love. Love based on merely sex is clearly not a mature love. The balance may vary but the romance is still there. Platonic love between a man and a woman vastly differs from platonic love between a parent and a child or platonic love between a human and it’s pet(s). Boundaries between a man and a woman are very delicate. Humanity is imperfect. We are all responsible for our own actions, decisions and beliefs and values and therefore our own consequences as well. We all want different things. It is important to clarify what platonic love is between man and woman(hetero) and the importance of clarification. A happy and successful relationship can be defined by its balance of platonic and physical love. After all it may prove to be difficult to find happiness and a strong connection with your partner if that friendship is not there. I will not touch on boundaries. Life is boundless if one so chooses it to be. I will not touch on the difference between right and wrong either. People make mistakes, some learn from them, some don’t and some don’t want to. People will do as they please. As I have said above people want different things and value different things. My purpose here is to clarify what platonic love truly is. It is a beautiful thing when completely understood. People will define boundaries according to their values and personal moral. Rather than debate one must educate them selves and be honest with them selves. A closed mind is not a mind open to truth and wisdom. Truth and wisdom will bring one to true enlightenment and a clear peace of mind. Sometimes in life one has to explore to find answers. One must under stand that truth may be spoken and maybe unspoken, seen or unseen. Mistakes do happen. Some risks are worth taking and some are not worth taking. Propaganda and mis-information closes the minds of many. How can one evolve as a person with a closed mind and the acceptance of reality? How can one be true with a partner if they are not truthful with self?

]]> By: in this now http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-1186 in this now Wed, 20 May 2009 15:36:21 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-1186 wow, im in this exact situation right now! ha, he freaks out about all my guy friends, every single one- and he's is the one who goes over to a girl *friends house to cheer her up cuz of her boy problems. For real if he can't trust me, doesn't that just mean he's prolly screwing around himself at this point? God what a vicious immature cycle. Do these guys ever realize there's such thing as a good girl out there? wow, im in this exact situation right now! ha, he freaks out about all my guy friends, every single one- and he’s is the one who goes over to a girl *friends house to cheer her up cuz of her boy problems. For real if he can’t trust me, doesn’t that just mean he’s prolly screwing around himself at this point? God what a vicious immature cycle. Do these guys ever realize there’s such thing as a good girl out there?

]]> By: sheaKILLAH http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-1122 sheaKILLAH Thu, 14 May 2009 07:08:26 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-1122 thanks, real talk i needed that. thanks, real talk i needed that.

]]> By: Hot.Sizzle http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-1116 Hot.Sizzle Thu, 14 May 2009 00:14:42 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-1116 ugh i know i said i'd comment on this but i can't even write something cohesive without getting angry cuz we BOTH KNOW what the deal is with this topic haha. and to ric they definitely can, story of my life hahaha j/k ugh i know i said i’d comment on this but i can’t even write something cohesive without getting angry cuz we BOTH KNOW what the deal is with this topic haha. and to ric they definitely can, story of my life hahaha j/k

]]> By: Telley Suazon http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-1114 Telley Suazon Wed, 13 May 2009 23:55:18 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-1114 co-sign. why the males believe that their girl is going to drop her pants as soon as he turns his head is beyond me. Yea i might say hi to homeboy but thats it. i left with you and if i didnt go home with you then i spent the entire night on the phone with your ass! so you tell me, when did i have time to give him the business? trust issues? SMH! out. co-sign.
why the males believe that their girl is going to drop her pants as soon as he turns his head is beyond me. Yea i might say hi to homeboy but thats it. i left with you and if i didnt go home with you then i spent the entire night on the phone with your ass! so you tell me, when did i have time to give him the business? trust issues? SMH!
out.

]]> By: ric http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-1110 ric Wed, 13 May 2009 16:55:13 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-1110 cam men have platonic "hot" looking female friend? or is this a setup to spite other gender out? cam men have platonic “hot” looking female friend?

or is this a setup to spite other gender out?

]]> By: Eileen http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-1108 Eileen Wed, 13 May 2009 02:41:29 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-1108 just wow. you couldn't have said it ANY better! just wow. you couldn’t have said it ANY better!

]]> By: Connie http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140&cpage=1#comment-1107 Connie Tue, 12 May 2009 22:48:30 +0000 http://whatthehellz.com/wordpress/?p=3140#comment-1107 Hahahahahahahahaha Amen, woman! Hahahahahahahahaha
Amen, woman!

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